feat(pymongo): Respect data_collection.database_query_data option

[ericapisani]

Use the data_collection.database_query_data option to decide whether to
strip PII from captured MongoDB command data, falling back to
send_default_pii when the new option is not configured.

Refs PY-2587
Refs #6747

[linear-code]

PY-2587

[github-actions]

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